'When you learn to accept instead of expect, you'll have fewer dissapointments' - So true! Expecting more often than not always leads to dissapointment. If you're not expecting, then anything is a bonus, and you get along and accept the given situation alot better than if you were let down; with the wondering 'what if'. This way there's no 'what if's' and you just get on with it. It makes sense to me, i don't know whether i've got my opinion across very clearly, maybe not!